Margarita Grachevoy biography

St. Petersburg 2nd Krasnoarmeyskaya St. The tragedy not only did not break Margarita, but gave her the strength to start a new life - she began to help other victims of domestic violence. She was born in Serpukhov near Moscow on November 12. She herself said that her childhood was difficult to call remarkable - like everyone else, studied at school and talked with peers. Parents divorced when the girl was still small, and she did not maintain a relationship with her father.

But with her mother - Irina Sheikina - she was always very close. Young people paid attention to a pretty student, but the girl preferred her studies to noisy parties and dates. She could not resist only the charm of Dmitry Grachev, who cares for her. They got married in the year. Margarita Gracheva in her youth marriage a year after the wedding Margarita gave birth to the first son of Dmitry, and in the year another son appeared in the family - Danila.

Gracheva combined the decree with her studies - in the same year she received a university diploma. A couple of years after the birth of her second son, Margarita decided to go to work and got to the publisher of one of the Serpukhov newspapers for the post of marketer. The girl gave all her strength to work, she was appreciated by the authorities - a year later she was entrusted with the position of head of the department.

But relations in the family were pasted. Dmitry suited much more when his wife was constantly at home, he did not share her career ambitions. He was very jealous, quarrels and scandals began in the family. But it did not reach physical violence: Dmitry mocked his wife morally. Once he threw out all her cosmetics, as it seemed to him that she was too young in front of the working day.

Margarita Gracheva with her sons of feelings in the family went out: in an interview, Margarita recalled that they began to live like neighbors: “They came home, dinner, went to bed. Everyone was busy with their own affairs. ” In the year, Gracheva invited her husband to be submitted for divorce. He was shocked by her decision and began to smooth his guilt: he met his wife from work, gave flowers, looked after.

Margarita was adamant and demanded from Dmitry to move away from her with her children. He flared up: with rage, he tore his wife’s passport so that she could not take the documents to the registry office, and attacked her with fists. Margarita Gracheva and Dmitry Grachev, her first husband he moved in a few days, taking his common car, and Margarita changed the castles in the apartment.

He tried to break home a couple of times, stood at the door for hours, shouted and threatened his wife. After Gracheva threatened him with the police, he seemed to come to terms. Margarita did not work out the tragedy to completely break communication with her husband. They equally shared the care of children. Dmitry brought them to kindergarten every morning and sometimes threw his wife to her work.

On one of these days, November 10, he took her into the forest and began to threaten her with a knife, demanding to return to him and pick up a divorce statement. Margarita reassured him, and upon returning to the city immediately turned to the police. But the district police officer did not accept her statement, considering the incident with an ordinary family quarrel.

The police officer promised to hold a preventive conversation with Dmitry. Margarita was in horror: she asked her colleagues to immediately contact the police if she was not at work in the morning, she constantly reported her mother’s movements. But all these measures did not protect her from the tragedy. On the way to the kindergarten, Gracheva told her husband that she was going to go with her sons to Kostroma for the weekend.

They even drove to Margarita’s mother for a suitcase for things. But when Gracheva was going to put him in the trunk, Dmitry asked to place a suitcase in the back seat. He helped Margarita take the children to the kindergarten and offered to give her to work. But she never got to the office that day. Along the way, Grachev blocked all the doors and took the phone from his wife.

He again brought her to the forest near Serpukhov. Dmitry took out a burner and a hatchet from the trunk - later it turned out that he bought everything necessary for terrible torture 10 days ago. With a tourniquet, he pulled Margarita's hands and dragged it into the forest. There, away from prying eyes, he stunned Magarita, hitting his head several times. Dmitry shouted that Margarita would not allow Margarita to destroy their family and pick up their sons.

Gracheva persuaded her husband to calm down, cried and asked to untie her hands, as she had already stopped feeling. In response, she heard that the hands could be held for up to an hour and a half - so Margarita realized that Dmitry was preparing for everything that was happening in advance. The man's shoe, the man crushed the rook hands and began to cut off the phalanx of his fingers.

All this time, Margarita was conscious. Dmitry chopped off his wife both brushes. Here, the tourniquet came in handy, which were able to slow down the loss of blood. But Margarita believed that the ex -husband did not take care of this out of pity: he knew that at that time Grachev’s disability was afraid much more than even death, and also understood that the punishment under the article for the murder is much more severe.

He sentenced: "You wanted to stroke the children on the heads, drive a car, but now you will not have it." Brutal torture in the forest lasted about an hour and a half.When Margarita tried to crawl away from an angry husband, he beat her with an ax on the legs and body. After that, Dmitry took his wife to the hospital and went home. Margarita’s operation forever remembered the terrible path to the hospital.

While she was bleeding, her husband opened the window in the car and said with pleasure: “What adrenaline! In the hospital, Gracheva was conscious: she had the strength to dictate the to the doctors of her mother, to inform the left brush remained in the forest, and ask her sons to take her sons from the kindergarten. After that, she turned off. Margarita Gracheva in the hospital of Serpukhov doctors worked on her amputated hands for about five hours.

Then Margarita was transported to the capital, and the metropolitan doctors began to operate on it. In 9 hours of operation, they managed to make the incredible: they not only sewed the left brush found in the forest literally on pieces back in the forest, but also returned a small part of the functions to it. The talented surgeon Timofey Yuryevich Sukhinin operated on her.

But the right hand could not be saved. She did not stop what had happened, as she was afraid that in this case the son -in -law would receive a mild punishment. Even in the forest, Dmitry told his wife that he was going to a confession with a guilty of his guards for several years from the future term. He also stated Gracheva that she was obliged to wait for him from prison, otherwise the next time he would cut off his hands to all her relatives.

After the publicity of the history of Margarita, the indifferent residents of the country in just a few weeks were able to raise an impressive amount for treatment and separately 4 million rubles for a modern bio -onic prosthesis. His doctors intended to put Gracheva instead of the lost right hand. Dmitry was arrested a few hours after the hospitalization of Margarita.

He was at home and did not deny his guilt. At first he was placed in a psychiatric clinic, where the examination recognized him as sane, and then sent to the investigative insulator. The lawyer Margarita Margarita, Margarita, took to defend in court, Margarita, the head of the Center for Protection of the victims from domestic violence. Legal support turned out to be in the way: Davtyan helped to terminate the marriage, file a lawsuit against the district police officer, who did not react to Gracheva’s statement in time, as well as deprive Dmitry of parental rights.

Margarita was not only afraid for the life of her sons in the future, but also assumed that due to the presence of minor children, Grachev could soften the deadline. Margarita Gracheva with his mother and lawyer Marie Davtyan, the court refused several times the deprivation of Dmitry of parental rights, insisting that he had an evil intent only against his wife. Finally, in the middle of the year, the court sided with Margarita.

And in November of the same year, Dmitry was sentenced - 14 years in a maximum security colony, as well as the payment of compensation to Margarita in the amount of 2 million rubles. Dmitry Grachev In court, life after the incident is the most difficult prosthetics of the right hand of Margarita in Germany. After discharge, she returned to Serpukhov, where she encountered both a wave of support, as well as paradoxically, with a hat.

Some skeptics believed that she earned popularity, taking part in different talk shows and telling about the territy experienced. Critics became larger after the fall of the year Gracheva published the book “Happy without Hands”. In the final of her story, Margarita said that she had found the long -awaited happiness and even got married. Margarita Gracheva with her book in an interview with Gracheva told how important it was for her to prove with her example that life was ongoing.

She believed that she helped not only the victims of domestic violence, but also those who are forced to live with prostheses. Margarita participated in exquisite photo shoots, where she did not hide the biomechanical hand in the frame.

And in one photoset, she even appeared with an amputated brush without a prosthesis. Margarita Gracheva, without a prosthesis in the year, TV presenter Regina Todorenko handed over to Margarita the Woman of the Year, according to Glamor magazine, which she herself received a year earlier. After Todorenko’s ambiguous and sharp statements that the victims of domestic violence are partly to blame for it, the public demanded to deprive it of this title.

Regina revised her views and admitted that she was wrong. And in the fall of the year, Margarita in social networks said that for a year it has been in a new marriage for a year. Gracheva did not report either to friends or even her mother about the wedding in September in St. Petersburg. Her new chosen one was the St. Petersburg builder and musician Maxim Andryushchenko.

They met in social networks: Maxim was the first to write Margarita and offered to meet. When she came to St. Petersburg for rehabilitation, she also found time for a meeting with Maxim. For several months they maintained a relationship at a distance, and on the eve of the wedding, Margarita moved to her lover with her children.